Letter writing has become, unfortunately, a lost art. In earlier generations, people would sit down and write some of the most beautiful letters to their loved ones, often including descriptive passages to give the recipient a little taste of their life and experiences. The letter would be stamped, taken to a mail drop somewhere, and then carried by a variety of different methods to places far and wide. Upon arrival at its destination, the letter would be placed in the hands of the recipient, who had often been counting the days until that next letter would arrive and he could finally read the words of the sender.
Many beautiful relationships were formed by these letters throughout the years, with the postal service acting as the go-between who connected the two parties together. And then, after having been read, they were often lovingly kept together – sometimes held together by a bit of ribbon or twine – so that they could be read again in the days to come, as the two parties waited for the next letter to arrive.
And then the internet was invented and letter writing as we once knew it quickly became a thing of the past. These days, there’s no need for descriptive passages to describe the landscapes and events; we simply include a jpeg file of a picture in the e-mail. Thank you notes have become a quick e-mail or text message, often reading something as brief as “Thx!” We can’t even spell the words out anymore. What an incredible loss!
What could be more fun, then, than to unearth the old letters of a young couple as they come to know each other and build a relationship? That’s exactly what Martha Fitzgerald has done in her book, The Courtship of Two Doctors: A 1930s Love Story of Letters, Hope & Healing. In tribute to her parents – and with a Prologue written by her father before his death – Fitzgerald has painstakingly collected and ordered the hundreds of letters sent and received between her parents, spanning from the early years of their beginning acquaintance as medical students visiting the Mayo Clinic in the 1930s, through their budding romance that begins to grow through their written letters as they separate to different learning institutions, and finally ending in a love that will withstand the test of time. While separated by more than a thousand miles, the letters between the two cemented not only their friendship, but eventually became the very foundation of the love they would share for decades.
Rochester readers, library patrons and area residents are in for a real treat tonight! The Rochester Public Library will be hosting Martha Fitzgerald as she comes to speak about this wonderful book! Join us this evening, Sept. 24th, at 7:00 PM in the auditorium hear Fitzgerald speak, and then stay around for an opportunity to have your own copy signed by the author. You can even purchase a new copy if you don’t have one!
This is one author event you won’t want to miss!